Ooo good point I failed to add..*runs to edit now* lol! It's so true, and why should we have to figure out how to adjust because someone else's parent sucked at parenting..why is it our problem to fix, not theirs. I have triggers, but why should I just endure them being set off when they shouldn't be, cos someone had a kid that shouldn't have, cos they can't be arsed with parenting....